Do not agree to meet with a man in a relationship with whom you are not interested, with a man for whom you do not feel sympathy, attraction.
Unfortunately, a similar situation is not uncommon: a woman and a man get acquainted on an international dating site, intensive communication follows, the lady (Join Adult Dating – MeetKing) expresses her consent to meet the man, he plans a trip (the actual expenses of the foreign gentleman: buying tickets, paying for the hotel, arranging the visa), and just a few days before the trip the communication stops, the lady does not know about herself, does not explain the reasons for her mood change (and this is very convenient, out of sight and out of mind, but cruel and childish). These are not isolated stories.
If your situation has changed, if you are no longer sure you want to meet the man who is due to come to you one day, then be consistent and humane with other people – whatever the reason for refusal, you can always find the right words and do the right thing by informing him of your decision.
APPRECIATE A MAN WHO IS WILLING TO DO THINGS FOR YOU
Have the courage to let him know your decision. Keep a balance, don’t hurt other people, don’t betray them. If you have inspired someone to come to you, if you have expressed a desire to meet with them, have the courage to let them know that you have changed your mind. In life there are different circumstances, (Also Read: WHAT TO DO IF THE SEARCH FOR A LOVED ONE ONLINE HAS NOT YET YIELDED RESULTS?) but a person should remain in all situations. If something gets in the way of your meeting, warn the man in advance. Have the courage and dignity to openly say no to a man if something (someone) gets in the way of your already scheduled meeting. Acting out on a woman you don’t know is not something you take for granted. Appreciate a man who is willing to do things for you, another determined and serious man may not come into your life again.
Life can be very difficult. Many women have encountered lies and betrayal in their lives. If you have been treated badly in the past, it can shake your faith in people. However, the past does not give you the right to hurt other people in the present, to play with their feelings.
“The Law of the Boomerang”
Everything in life is interconnected, and the term “boomerang effect” is used to describe this interdependence. Its essence is that every day a man sends a huge number of “boomerangs” to the Universe with his thoughts, words, emotions, feelings and deeds. Everything sent (goodness; sincerity in relationships; love; sympathy; attention; joy of accepting a person for who he is; forgiveness; help; support, as well as anger; aggression; indifference; hatred; ridicule; judgment; criticism, etc.) is sent back. This return is delayed in time (a day, a week, a month, or a year, a year later). The good comes back with joyful events, while the evil comes back with cruel blows of fate.
The boomerang effect is sometimes called the “law of the sower” – “you reap what you sow. The German saying is “wie man in den Wald hineinruft so schallt es heraus” (“as you shout in the forest, so shall it be answered”).
In relationships, the “boomerang effect” works as follows: if there is little love in your life, pay attention first of all to yourself, think about what “constraints” on love are in your head, what thoughts, what attitude you have toward the opposite sex, do you believe in love? And begin to give love, only sincerely – to your elderly neighbor, colleagues, coworkers, friends. Think of people with love and warmth.
If you have shown inattention and indifference to a man who is ready to do things for you, you “fog away,” leaving him without an explanation, in perplexity, in doubt and uncertainty about his trip to you. Or when you arrange for the man to come to your country you do not meet him, but simply leave him to his fate in a foreign country without knowing the language – you act dishonestly, and send a boomerang, which will surely come back into your life. With a time delay…
Be honest with yourself and the man – meet him, communicate with him, if he is not your man, appreciate rightly his attitude and deed, tell him so and remain friends. It will be fair to yourself and to the man who wanted to see you in the hope of meeting his love.