Based on her perception of the world, a woman creates her own image. What image do you create when you communicate with a man? Look at yourself through the eyes of your interlocutor. How attractive is your image, what feelings and emotions does it evoke? A woman broadcasts her image as a self-perception and a man reacts to this image in one way or another. (Join Adult Dating – MeetKing) What do you broadcast?
What kind of men do you prefer? Choose 10, or even more, qualities of a man that attract you, or rather, what qualities you would like to see in your beloved.
- wealthy (rich);
- strong in spirit;
- with a sense of humor;
- without bad habits;
If you haven’t found the qualities that impress you, you can write them yourself. Are you ready?
You have received an answer of sorts – with (Also Read: IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF, FORGIVE ME…) what set of qualities you want to appear before a man, or you have, in fact, written your portrait, or rather, your collection of qualities. These qualities, as in a mirror, reflect your requirements for yourself, your vision of yourself. To meet a man with this set of qualities, you must possess them yourself. By the law of attraction, we attract people like ourselves. “Like to like.” To attract the king of your dreams, you yourself must become a queen. If you are cheerful, good-natured, happy every day of your life, easy going, easy in relationships (meaning you are not ballast in a relationship), then being on this wave, you have a high probability of meeting someone similar to you or with the same outlook. You may also meet others as well, since the worldview of joy of life is very attractive to people, but these others, moody and gloomy, will quickly go away, “fall off”… Although they will get a breath of freshness and lightness from you. This is the kind of communication where the understanding of inadequacy comes at once and catches the eye at the first contact.
IMAGES OF WOMEN WHO REPEL MEN IN DATING
The image of a “snow queen”
“Freezing” in communication, closedness, an accentuated unwillingness to do anything for the relationship, a false belief that beauty and unapproachability will lead to the desired results. One gets the impression that only a man is interested in finding his queen…
The Image of the Princess “Nesmeyana”
Women of this image at the first contact declare that they are interested only in a serious relationship and thus, to some extent, cut off the contact. During the first contact a man gets acquainted, looks around, he is not ready for the dictate of the lady’s requirements, the man should feel free to choose, he wants to enjoy the process of communication, and not be “pinned down” by the seriousness of his intentions. When dating takes place in real life, you don’t ask about the seriousness of your partner’s intentions at the moment of acquaintance, do you? Why do you do it on an international dating site? You are robbing yourself of the chance to meet a worthy man.
The image of the mercenary
Women of this image find ways to indicate their material claims. All communication is reduced to requests and hints, for example, a toothache and no money for treatment or an old phone that prevents communication with the man in messengers, need a new phone, etc. The woman communicates with her requests – “all I need is money.” Greed is always easy to recognize. It lies on the surface and has nothing to do with finding your soul mate…
The image of a windy, fickle person
A woman creates this image if she allows herself to be fickle in her communication. She promised to write and she didn’t write, she promised to call and she didn’t call… Empty promises lead a man to believe that communication with him does not interest this person. And communication thus ends. The strange thing is that some women do this, wanting to intrigue a man, to ignite the “hunter’s instinct”. The situation of online dating on an international site forms other rules of communication, one of which is consistency in communication as a sign of seriousness of intentions.
The image of the helpless person
A woman sees a man as the solution to all her problems. The man may be impressed by the role of the “knight-savior. For a while. Then he gets tired of this role. And then the woman’s helplessness is interpreted as immaturity, and harmony in relationships arises only between mature people.
The image of a woman in the process of
Here we are talking about women who have recently broken up and are in the process of making sense of a previous relationship. They are not yet ready for a new relationship. When communicating with them, the topic of the former partner is constantly on display. The story about him is usually accompanied by unflattering epithets, and the man understands that they can talk about him in the same spirit. The topic of former lovers is something of a taboo in a new relationship. You can allow yourself in general delicate tones to indicate the reason for the breakup, but no more. In no case do not pour mud on your former partner. This you hurt yourself. Your partner will see you with different eyes.
The image of a woman who defiantly exalts herself
So is the image of a strongly emancipated woman. These images frighten and repel men. High demands and desire for superiority, emphasizing this superiority in communication.
WHAT FEMININE QUALITIES ATTRACT FOREIGN SUITORS?
The most valuable female qualities are sincerity, soulfulness, kindness, intelligence, a cheerful disposition, and the ability to forgive. European men are attracted to beautiful and well-groomed women who are confident and goal-oriented.
The main thing that the woman was sincere and loved herself, not manipulated and not self-sacrificing. She should live her life to the fullest and enjoy every day.