We will list in here few types of girlfriends every man should date at least once
Some men have a rigid type of woman they choose: High achiever, dirty sense of humor, vinyl collector. Personally, I avoid having a particular type. How do you know if you really like someone until you date them? And don’t your needs, desires and ideas of attraction change over the years? Variety, as they say, is the spice of life. So before you decide on a wonderful superwoman, make sure you’ve dated a few unsuitable ones too. Like these.
She’s more experienced than you, possibly older, and definitely smarter. She’s not like the giddy girls you’ve been with before. Alpha has a PhD, the mortgage itself is immaculately maintained at all times. She knows what she wants – in the bedroom, in the boardroom and beyond – and it’s incredibly attractive. But it takes a strong and secure man to be with an Alpha woman who loves to do is stay at home with the kids while kicking ass at work and not being impressed by her success.
The Home Buddy
You met when her dinner party turned into a mini-party and a buddy of a buddy introduced you. She’s very social but prefers nights in, cooking and drinking with friends or the local pub rather than fancy clubs. You like her because she avoids conflict or drama and makes you feel cared for. She’s good at relationships and doesn’t do one-night stands. You’ll be together for a few years before either the passion dies and one of you longs for something more exciting, or you’ll get married and move to Hertfordshire.
The Hot Mess
She’s rarely awake before noon (unless she hasn’t gotten up the night before), has head hair in bed, kohl-smeared eyes, and a smoking hot body toned from dancing and tanned from festivals. You met one night and your dates start in Dalstonand end up in Vauxhall. Hot Mess isn’t looking for a boyfriend; she’s looking for a party buddy. But while a long-term relationship may not be on the table, you’ll have a hell of a time dancing on them.
You’ve always liked her a bit, but considered her one of the boys, not viable girlfriend material. Then one night, both single and drunk, one thing leads to another. Before you know it, you are shagging your best friend. Which is fine. You probably feel more comfortable around her than any other girl you’ve been out with. She’s hot, makes you laugh, and might actually be the one. Or you could wake up with a head full of regrets and ruin one of your strongest friendships.
The Crazy Girl
She works with kids, in the arts or at a nonprofit place. She tends to cancel because she doesn’t like to plan, but relies on instinct. You spend nights drinking red wine out of jam jars, talking about feelings, or having tantric sex. Compared to your need for planning, structure and organization, Kooky Girl is a breath of fresh air and helps you relax a bit. But the flakiness might eventually get on your nerves.
The totally inappropriate, totally inadequate woman.
Your boss, your buddy’s sister, or your ex-girlfriend who broke your heart. The somewhat crazy co-worker, empty personality, married woman or girl that your friends hate because she has already slept with two of them and is not trustworthy. It’s important to meet someone who is explicitly wrong for you to not only realize what you want out of a relationship, but you’ll have a hell of a story to tell in the years to come.