How to conquer a strong and worthy man? How to interest yourself personally and at a distance? I often have to hear similar questions from my girlfriends, all of them want to have a universal means to obtain reciprocity.
However, I have noticed that many women are not willing to make enough effort to become more interesting and attractive to the opposite sex. Alas, there is no means to instantly fall in love with any man in person or by correspondence. It is impossible to control your own and other people’s feelings. To get reciprocity, you will have to go a long way, but you will become more experienced and better. And that in itself is valuable.
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How to get it right. Explore your purpose
Without knowing a man’s needs and inclinations, you won’t be able to present yourself correctly and to your maximum advantage.
You definitely need to know the following about him:
- Life Position.
- Past partners
- Plans for the future
Where do you get such personal information, you might ask? The main sources are common acquaintances and social networks. Make a kind of questionnaire, and try to study in detail all the information available to you. The most important thing is to determine what type of woman is most attractive to a man: Woman Mother, Girlfriend, Lioness or Mistress.
- As you understand, a Mother type girl is emotional, sensitive, often creative in nature. She is very fond of children and strives to create a family.
- Girlfriend type is a classic intellectual with whom you can discuss any topic and even go fishing.
- The Lioness girl represents a bright, attractive and proud personality, which a man will strive to win and demonstrate to those around him as his trophy.
- Finally, the Mistress Girl is the young lady who cooks excellently, keeps the house clean, and manages to pursue her career. She may not be too emotional, but she is reliable and predictable.
Once you have determined the man’s tastes and inclinations, build a line of behavior and take care of your appearance. Men love with their eyes, and if all his ex-partners were brunettes with a good figure, then you would do well to compete with them. Then you can easily make a man fall in love with you.
Preparation. How to look.
To get a guy’s attention, you need to stand out from the crowd, be able to position yourself as a self-sufficient and interesting girl. And also to look your best!
It will be easy to get the one you love if you follow the following rules:
Take care of yourself.
You can’t afford to be ugly. The female sex has a million procedures and tricks that can turn a simple country girl into a beauty on the cover of a magazine. But a lot depends on you!
- Take special care of your hair, skin, and hands.
- If you need to lose weight, don’t hesitate to go straight to the gym and fix your diet.
Your makeup doesn’t have to be flashy:
- Evening out your tone, emphasizing your eyes, eyebrows and moisturizing your lips is enough. Leave false eyelashes and clearly highlighted cheekbones for an evening out or a photo shoot.
- Don’t forget about hygiene, in particular removing hair wherever it shouldn’t be.
Tidiness is your main ally on the way to winning the man you love. Be natural, hiding flaws when necessary.
Match your style
Is your rich inner world hiding behind shapeless clothes of dull colors? I have news for you, it’s time to change! Girls, just do not run to the store to buy up all the bright blouses, short skirts and dresses with sequins. Leave those kinds of outfits for frivolous girls. After all, your goal – to charm and endear yourself to a particular man, which means it is best to focus on his own style or wishes.
If you don’t know what style of clothing he prefers to see on girls, settle for neutral outfits that can be advantageously emphasized with accessories:
- Monochrome jeans, cashmere turtleneck or silk blouse of delicate color, perhaps with a print – the perfect look for every day.
- Complement it with comfortable but elegant low to medium heeled shoes.
- Be sure to wear earrings, a bracelet or a feminine watch – feel free to remind others that you are a girl and like to adorn yourself.
To create a sensual image it is not necessary to buy a tight dress with an open back and stiletto shoes. The most important thing is your confidence in yourself and your attractiveness. Make yourself a gift by buying quality lingerie, with lace or embroidery. Wear a beautiful set with stockings, even under an ordinary dress, and you will immediately feel how your behavior and self-perception has changed.
Keep the intrigue alive.
This advice is as old as the world, but many girls don’t use it. As soon as a man realizes that he knows everything about you – no way. You will become an open book for him, which he has already read. Do not spill all the facts, even after years of life together a man does not need to know the details of your personal life before you met him.
- Try to communicate with a man with intriguing gestures and transparent hints. Wiggle your hips when gaiting a little more than usual. Show off your wrists, neck, legs, and fix your hair so that he pays attention. Show your interest naturally and unobtrusively. The man will feel reciprocated and look forward to every meeting.
- It is useful to show character sometimes to show independence and self-esteem. Don’t hide your point of view just because it doesn’t coincide with the man’s opinion. Express it politely and gently, offer to discuss over a cup of coffee. Become a full-fledged companion for the man, not just an object of sexual desire.
5 simple steps to win a man’s heart
Following these steps consistently will open you up to the prospect of creating a strong and happy relationship with the man you dream of.
- First of all, be friendly. It’s impossible to make people like you if you’re moody and depressed. Smile, laugh, be open and give others a positive attitude.
- Secondly, create your own unique image. How would you like those around you to see you? Think about what you can work on and what you should change in your appearance to get closer to your ideal.
- Third, be detached and self-sufficient. There is nothing more pathetic than a woman who desperately wants to get into a relationship. By putting yourself in such a disadvantageous position from the start, you run the risk of ending up with nothing.
- Fourth, work on your environment, for it reflects you far more than you can imagine. The saying “Tell me who your friend is, and I’ll tell you who you are” came about for a reason. If, on closer inspection, a guy notices that your friends include many untrustworthy and suspicious individuals, he will seriously question your legibility.
- Fifth, find common ground. At least five of these points will provide you with mutual interest in the early stages, when the relationship is just beginning to develop. Common topics, hobbies, trips, acquaintances. Anything that will help buy time and have time to get close to the man you like.
Top 7 Ways to Win a Man
All you have to do is follow these instructions and you will be able to please and fall in love with any man.
- Become the one. Show him that you can be the most loyal and loving. Be truly irreplaceable, the woman who knows his needs and can meet them. Some men need care and affection, others prefer companionship and general entertainment. Become what he needs you to be.
- Be different. Try to behave calmly and benevolently, but periodically show “claws” so that the man is toned down. Do not be afraid to take the initiative, surprise him, suggest spontaneous trips to romantic places. Change the images, haircuts, hairstyles. Give your man the opportunity to enjoy your presence.
- Don’t refuse help. A man needs to know that in a difficult situation he will be able to rely on you and get at least moral support. However, there are such comrades who perceive girls as a source of finance and other benefits, screen them out immediately and do not allow to sit on their necks. A man is a man to solve all his problems himself.
- To be independent. Don’t call every 15 minutes, don’t put yourself in a dependent position. Not only will this not cement your relationship, but it will also cause your man’s feelings to cool down.
- Don’t dump absolutely all your problems on his head, surely some of them you can solve on your own.
- And most importantly, be developed to the extent that you can support yourself completely. Confidence in the future will give you self-esteem and show the man that he must make efforts to be near you.
- Make friends with your surroundings. It is very important to enter his social circle. Friends or relatives, someone is bound to appreciate and celebrate your virtues. People are very influenced by the people around them. If one notes your good looks and the other your success at work, it will be a little easier to get and seduce a man.
- Share his lifestyle. The aspirations and plans for life should coincide so that you can become a couple and build a future together. It is also desirable to have common interests and hobbies. This brings two people very close and gives a lot of topics to talk about. Try to find out what your favorite man is most passionate about and figure it out. Your awareness will help hook him, and then the rest is a matter of technique.
- Radiate Sexuality. You can’t escape your instincts, so don’t hide your femininity and attractiveness. A modest girl can also be sexy in the eyes of the opposite sex. Work on your facial expressions, speech and gait. Walk from the hip. Buy clothes and shoes that emphasize your femininity. Abandon athletic style in your everyday life, instead create a light and romantic look.
All the ways described are better to use in combination, based on your situation. Don’t be afraid to experiment and find new ways to solve problems. To become the most important person for a man, you will have to try hard. Winning hearts is a man’s job, but sometimes a woman has to be proactive to get what she wants, too.
When to stop
You have successfully put into practice all the techniques described above, but you still have not succeeded in captivating a man? There are only two options:
- Either you didn’t try hard enough,
- Or you are not his type.
It’s not just about looks, but behavior, character, and more. You may have initially misjudged his preferences and put emphasis on the wrong things. What to do if you can not conquer the man you love?
Reveal your personality from a completely different side, let the man see how versatile and original you are. Dramatic changes in appearance and behavior will also help to attract his attention again and give an impetus to start a relationship. If that doesn’t work, sign up for Badoo and start connecting with interesting men.
If a girl, much less a wife, is discovered, stop! You may be the best woman he’s ever met in his life. But respect yourself.
What not to do
We’ve covered all the ins and outs of how to win a guy and get him to love you. Let’s focus on the things that repel men and make them run away:
- Tiresome shopping. Men get bored and start looking at their watches an hour after they start shopping. For shopping together, it is better to choose a girlfriend who can give you good advice.
- Questioning his thoughts. Leave the man alone if he is thoughtful and silent. Such a state does not indicate relationship problems at all, give him time to collect his thoughts. If you want the answer to the question “What are you thinking about?” to be “Only about you, darling!”, it’s time to take off the rose-colored glasses.
- Strangers. Try not to “take the dirt out of the house”, it is acceptable to discuss problems only with the closest people. Gossip does not adorn anyone, and your man will be unpleasant to learn from third parties about the problems that should have remained between you. Spare your partner from the constant presence of your girlfriends and endless stories about other people’s private lives.
- Intrusiveness. Your desire to be around him all the time may not be met with approval. Every man needs his personal space. If a man wants to spend the evening with friends watching soccer – do not forbid it, find something to do and just take a break from each other.
- Exhausting Waiting. Don’t make a man wait too long. It doesn’t matter what it is, a date or an answer to a question. Sure, you need to create intrigue and drama, but let it be appropriate. And remember, a three-hour wait in a caffe will drive anyone crazy, be tactful and punctual.